Supermom or just mom?

I have learned over the 39 years of my life so far that I just can’t be the best at everything.

I can try.

But the reality of it is that is might not be worth the effort because something has to give.  You have to sacrifice something in order to excel at others.

Or at least ask for help.

I think moms tend to put themselves on the back-burner when it comes to the quality of their lives and their health, especially when it is so easy to get caught up in taking care of their families.  It’s in our makeup to be nurturing caregivers.  Many of us define ourselves by how well we do our job as “mom” and “wife” and we take a lot of satisfaction in making sure our families are happy and healthy.  And for those of us who work (at home or in a traditional office), our priorities are stretched even further.  We strive to do and have it all, but in the end we often sacrifice ourselves before anything else.

Over the last couple of years I have made some conscious decisions to put some of my attention back into me because I realized that a happier, healthier me actually makes it easier to be successful in my other roles.  If the engine doesn’t run, the car can’t go anywhere on it’s own, and moms really are the “engine.”

I have become an avid label reader, I try and make as many meals as possible from scratch without processed ingredients or foods.  I have become more active following intense workout routines and starting a marathon training program.  Eating right and exercising helps my body and my brain feel better and more able to take on whatever life throws at me.

But sometimes that isn’t enough.

Taking vitamins helps get me through those days when my diet is less than stellar.  When I’ve run myself so ragged with the kids, their school, housework, their extra-curricular activities (and so much more) that all I want is a slice of pizza and the couch.  When my body is run-down and my defenses are lowered but I can’t afford to get sick.  When I have 2 sick kids and sleep is just not an option. When I want to grab my running shoes and hit the pavement or the treadmill despite not having slept in 2 days because I need some “me” time.

Vitamins help give me the extra energy I need to make it through the day but they also give me permission to NOT be supermom.  Knowing that I have some extra help taking care of me makes it easier for me to be just mom, and put my cape away.

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Abby the Artist – phase 1

Since Abby has been dealing with her rash and now a fever, we went out and got some crafts for her to do so she didn’t go stir crazy.

She wanted paint.

I cringed.

But gave in.

She picked out a wooden birdhouse with which to apply her new-found love of paint.

Phase 2 to follow…

Would you move your child up a grade?

This goofy boy of mine is smart.

So smart that his school has suggested moving him from 2nd grade to 3rd grade.

Details aside, they said socially and academically he will fit right in with the advanced third graders.

So.

Do we move him? 

Some brief info about him:

We are going to ask HIM what he wants to do and he is the type of kid who gets along with everyone.  He knows some of the third graders because he has been reading with them since he was in kindergarten – since then they have taken him out of his classroom to the next grade for reading.  He is a confident kid who embraces new things pretty well.

But he will go from being top dog to just one of the guys as far as academic achievements go.  He will go from having the confidence that he can help others because he knows the material to having someone to “compete” with to challenge him – and potentially not be able to keep up.  I’m just not sure which is better.

What are your thoughts?

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First I may have been an idiot trying to boil an egg.

Second, I set the pot on fire.

How the hell do you set a metal pot on fire?

I give up.

I wonder if anyone delivers pizza this early, cause this healthy lunch just is not going very well.

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If you want to boil an egg, do NOT let water boil then try and put the egg in.

See, the water is hot.

So you have to drop it.

It’s an EGG.

It breaks.

I might have done this today.  I’m just not saying one way or the other.

Just enjoy the PSA and go on with your day.

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